A Life That’s Good/You’re So Beautiful: Thoughts on Empire and Nashville

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I’ve never been a big live music person; in fact, I can probably count on my hands the number of concerts I have attended. That said I *love* musicals, which helps explain why I enjoy watching ABC’s Nashville and Fox’s Empire (though I was late to the game on this one and recently binge-watched the […]

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The Privilege of Passion

by Abigail Swartz for NYT

Last week the always reflective Motherlode ran a very thoughtful and insightful essay by Lisa Heffernan, “Our Push for ‘Passion,’ and Why It Harms Kids.” Heffernan actually makes the case that some forms of manufactured passion hurt not just the kids, but the whole family. Part of the reason why her essay is compelling (besides […]

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Grief and Gratefulness: Social Media Connections

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When you blog and are active on social media you virtually meet others, who then introduce you to others. Even though I’ve never met some of these people in real life (aka “IRL”) I follow their lives, their children’s lives, and often their friends. That’s how I “met” Lisa Bonchek Adams and Phyllis Sommer. They […]

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Playing around with Books and TV Shows

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I’ve been writing elsewhere lately about various different interests– my kids, playing, pageants, figure skating, books, TV shows, and child geniuses. You can check out these three different pieces by clicking on the titles: 1) Play, Outsourced– Written as part of the blog series, 28 Days of Play, about what impacts and at times impedes […]

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Reading and Reviewing Parenting Books: The Long View

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It’s no secret that I am a voracious reader. So when I read that people no longer want to read a book— or certain type of book— it makes me very sad. Especially given that one of my hats is as Book Review Editor at Brain, Child Magazine (obviously focusing on books related to parenting). […]

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America’s new child genius

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I loved the cover story of the January 24th issue of The Economist so much I even took notes. “America’s new aristocracy: Education and the inheritance of privilege” is spot on in so many ways. As the leader says, “Today’s rich increasingly pass on to their children an asset that cannot be frittered away in […]

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Be a Journalist #LikeaGirl

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I know I’m in the minority here, but I didn’t really like the Always #LikeaGirl ad that aired during the Superbowl this week. Now I write this as a person who believes wholeheartedly that men and women/girls and boys can almost always do the same things. I attended an all-girls school for eight years, and […]

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The Pageant Formula of Miss Universe 2015

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If you follow my writings on Miss Universe, you know that my absolute favorite part is the parade of national costumes. Trump and his minions got with the program this year and showed us the contestants modeling them– not just a picture of them flaunting their version of sexy national dress like last year. Even […]

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The Similar Worlds of Mutton Busting and AAU Basketball

Image by Jonno Rattman for New Yorker, Jadeyn Lara and Shayne Spain

In addition to reading a lot of books, I read a lot of magazines. Sometimes it takes me awhile to get through the stack on my nightstand, but I always do. I recently read two articles in my “regulars” (New Yorker and Sports Illustrated) that spoke to one another in important ways– even if no […]

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My Purple Train Boy Turns 3

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Back in November I (along with Carston!) made my writing debut in The Washington Post. I was thrilled to have a piece in the On Parenting section. I originally titled the piece “My Purple Train Boy,” but it was retitled to, “My boy likes soccer and dance, trains and the color purple.” The lines I […]

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