More Talking, and Writing, about Competition (while being a mom)!

Photo of Ricardo Portillo, Rick Bowmer for AP

It’s been a busy week; and I suspect it will continue to get busier as I prepare for the release of Playing to Win– or at least I hope so! Before detailing those though, some thoughts on making all this work as a mom: On the day I did the two TV appearances described below, [...]

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Writing, Writing, Writing, and Writing (Talking, too) about Competition

Playing to Win cover on Amazon

I’ve been writing so much lately, partly in preparation for the release of Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture (have I mentioned you can pre-order it now on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or the University of California Press’ website?!), that I decided to do a writing round-up this week. These four different [...]

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What Suzy Lee Weiss, Susan Patton, and Claire Vaye Watkins Have in Common

The Ivy League

Every year around April 1st we get a wave of news coverage about college admissions. Even though research has not (yet) shown that attending an elite school means you’ll make more money, lots of other studies suggest that it does matter. Often the ways it matters are difficult to measure, but they include social networks [...]

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LEANING IN to Single-Sex Education (originally appeared on The Huffington Post)

Cover of Lean In

So much ink has already been used up discussing one of the hottest books in recent memory, Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In. For that reason I was hesitant to add my two cents, even though I had many thoughts while reading the book (Not the least of which was, “Wait, I feel like I do all [...]

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My Review of Brooklyn Castle (originally posted on The Huffington Post Entertainment)

With the Bryant twins back in the day

It’s always great fun to see visual depictions and analysis of activities I’ve studied. Unlike Dance Moms, the drama in the recent documentary Brooklyn Castle isn’t manufactured. It brings an important story, and activity, to a broader audience– in a way not done since the 1993 movie Searching for Bobby Fischer. Below is my review [...]

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Reading Round-Up on Kids and Competitive Activities (mix of YA and MG fiction books)

Fifteen Love cover from Amazon

Because of my research on kids and competition (especially beauty pageants and dance, which often bleeds into cheer, and athletics) and my own love of reading, I often read youth literature on these topics– which I’ve written about before.  Most of the time this has meant Young Adult (YA) books, but more recently I’ve noticed [...]

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Turkey Trots for Tots

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Prodigies are always a hot topic, and with the publication of Andrew Solomon’s Far From the Tree, they have been back in the news.  While prodigies tend to come from fields where it is not necessary to go through physical maturation first (like music, math, chess, etc.), that is beginning to change as some parents [...]

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The Competition-Performance Relation and Dance

Abby's Ultimate Dance Competition title and picture

When I read Matt Richtel’s article, “The Competing Views on Competition,” last month in The New York Times I couldn’t stop thinking about what one of the chess moms I met told me while I was researching Playing to Win: “Raising kids is a big experiment and I won’t know till later if I did [...]

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Parenting, Pageantry, and Politics

Carston learning how to float on his back

The past month or so has been pretty crazy in the Levey Friedman household– death, life, illness(es), first teeth, a hurricane and a nor’easter, Halloween, an election, the list goes on.  Through it all I’ve attempted to keep writing, but the priority has been parenting the Little Man… especially after we lost our childcare in [...]

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Pint-Sized Football Phenoms

Whack Job Sports Parents, by Zohar Lazar for Boston Magazine

We’re in the midst of multiple football seasons– Pop Warner, high school, college, and pros– and, like anything, we have some good and some bad stories. The bad stories focus on injuries and over-involved adults.  Massachusetts and New England are no strangers to crazy youth sports parents and physical altercations (as I wrote about in [...]

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